Life Bites.....

[Georgia Peach]

Has anyone ever knew what they wanted and could not have it? Yeah, when that happens life startes to really suck! :mad: I know what I want I and know why I can't have it! I need help to get over that Yes its a guy. But I don't know how to get over him! I have really tryed. I really have but nothing I do helps. Going out with others don't help because than I feel like I did him wrong. Not thinking about him don't work because I can never stop thinking about him!!!! :( I just don't know what to do. Please HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :(

[rangerhopefull_1162]

need 2 know circumstances b4 i can help, becasue thats information u can use 2 get urself out. im me at soccerking1162. seeing as this is army.com, ill talk to you on ther if u want help

[SuzanneD.]

It would be a lot easier if I knew what happend. But I know about a few things which could help you.....1. I think your in a bad mode but try to do something with people which have nothing to do with the boy, because it's worse that you lose time! even if you don't feel like doing something.... You just got 1life!!

2. Do things you have never tried bevor or what you haven't done since you were a child.
Go inlineskating, to a park, celebrate a girlsnite,...

3. Make a list about all the things you have because your a single. Free, time for myself...

4. Think about how much time you lost because your sad!

5. Don't stop to go out with boys, but if they don't make you happy.... get the next boy.

6. Be open.... meet new people: try to get in kontakt with other people.

I've been with my boyfriend together for 1 1/2years... I'm happy to be alone and I learnd that people weast time for being sad that they don't have a relashionship.... they are so sad that they forgett what they can do for them selfes.

:)

[Georgia Peach]

My ex didn't tell me that he was going across seas and ever since then we have been in more and more fights. But my ex boyfriend from about 2 years ago has poped up and when I am around him I feel happy but still not like a whole person, but when I am with the army guy i feel whole but not happy. Is there any way that I can get both that way I feel both happy and whole. I just don't want to get hurt and they have both hurt me but I want to be loved and they both love me. But the army guy would walk 10000000000000000000000+ miles for me if I asked him to the other guy would look at me like I have losed my mind. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!! ;)

[Americanguy21787]

So ive read this and iam tryin to figure out if you love him or if you think you love him then love has no bounderies.I dated a girl in houston wich is about 3 hrs from where iam and our relationship worked out pretty good we loved each other with all our hearts until she just didnt wanna be with me anymoe

[fade2black_81]

Get rid of your ex and your current and find somebody who is both, no point in getting tied down to a person that wont make you truly happy or wont be there for you.

[armygirlfriend]

:( The only thing that really helped me was time....that and he got married six months after he dumped me. :mad: I still thought about him ..Alot!! and I didnt want to be with anyone else bt ,I had to face the facts .I wasnt getting what I wanted .It wasnt mine to have anymore.Truth is God helped me concentrate on other things...that hadnothing to do with other guys and I had fun just hanging out with my friends...its better to just enjoy life then losing pieces of your heart to a bunch of guys ..just wait have fun be your self ...next thing you know the right guy will come along ..and he'll be everything you want...just like the special guy in my life now. :)
I hope that helps a little. -Armygirlfriend

[Gr8ful2them]

just a comment
We all have to go thru some tough times
It's the way You handle them for better or worse that makes YOU who you will become
hope this session of pain passes quickly

[Aravis]

I had a boyfriend who broke up with me because he was moving to another part of the world. I wanted him to wait for me for two years to finish my studies so that I could move to him, but he wasn't up for it. He said he still liked me alot, and I wanted us to stay in contact and he agreed. But I just couldn't get over him like that. I wanted him to make it easier for me by telling me that he didn't want any contact with me, but he didn't give me that, probably misunderstood me and thought he'd hurt me less by saying he still wanted to know me. Well, after a couple of weeks I just couldn't take it anymore. I was thinking about him all the time and I needed to stop doing that and get on with my life, so I sent him a message saying goodbye and told him that now he was deleted from my life as well as my phone. I haven't heard anything from him since (which proves that he doesn't know me at all because I would have liked him to acknowledge it!) Anyway, it helped! I have thought of him a lot less.
And I think you should do that too, with both your guys. Somewhere out there is a guy who can give you butterflies and who will walk to the end of the world for you. And until you find him, you should be happy with yourself and truly get to know who you are! That's the best advice I can give you. I hope you feel better soon!!!