Need some advice...not sure where to go

[kaykie]

My boyfriend just returned home from Iraq last week and was immediately sent to Oklahoma (we are in Oregon) for training of some sort. He flew me out to see him that first weekend and it was so good to see him again. The problem is its been a week since I left and I have yet to hear from him. He had been using his friends phone to contact me and when I called, his friend says they were split up and that he said he'll call me when he can. I know it sounds selfish, but is it normal for the guys to pull away from their loved ones when they come home? :(

[Georgia Peach]

Hey I know that its hard to be away from somebody that you love and want to be around 24-7 But you have to be strong for him and you have to let him know that you are willing to wait forever on him. Only if you can. If you are thinking that you might be moving on to somebody then go ahead and cut it off. It will keep yall from going though alot of heart ach. If you know you can wait for him and that you are willing to wait from him then wait. He will come back to you if he loves you I mean really loves you. I really think that yall can make it though this. If you need to talk to someone send me a private messsage. :)

[kaykie]

Thank you so much for your reply! Its just nice to know that other people understand what I'm going through. I feel much better and will be waiting peacefully for him to contact me. I will try to post right away when I do hear from him! :)

[Americanguy21787]

Long distance relationships are definatley hard to keep but if yall really love each other then i think yall should try and keep in touch but if you ever need anything feel free to private message me anytime :rolleyes:

[Spc.Crow]

Yea it's hard being in a strong relationship with such distance involved. I know when I was deployed I lost my future wife because I was deployed. It sucked but I drove on.

[Tyson]

It's hard as everybody knows that when a loved is gone at war.
My dad Warren Griffith was in Vetanom warand he had a wife that was here at home then and she was pregnate with me at that point I was born in October 1987. I am a sophmoreright now. Don't be afriad eveything should work out with him.

From:Tyson Griffith

[armygirlfriend]

Itissooo hard to be away fromyourlovedones.especially when you cant bein contactwith them for long periodsoftime.Notknowing howtheyre doing,where they are.Ifthey think aboutyou as much as you think about them.This kind of relationshop really requires alot of patience, trust , selflessness.Eventhough it hurts for you to be away from them,and you want to spend all of your time with that person when they come home,You have to be aware of their needs and feelings as well.Dont give up ,Be strong for eachother.
Armygirlfreind :)

[Jynx]

more power to ya, and good luck