sweetashoney
11-17-2007, 06:44 AM
Hi you all!
I am back- some of you probably know that I have been on here before, due to a few not so nice posts of other users I decided to leave this forum, though. Anyways, I actually would really appreciate if you could help me out. My ex and I had gotten together when he came to visit me and his uncle, who lives in Germany also, during his deployment to the sandbox. Everything was great back then, during the deployment (with the ups and downs you know) and we had even stuck through his extention. Ok, well, we had a few arguments about his next duty station (he really wanted to come here but it seems like he is getting stationed in Korea now) and when I found a strange comment of one of his exes on his myspace, I freaked out on the phone. I was so mad that I actually made him make a decision about breaking up or staying with me. When I called him again a few hours later, he was so cold and basically said that "we knew we were made for each other but the timing just wasn't right". I wanted to tell him that I don't want this relationship to be over but I was just crying and couldn't even think. Well, the next day, I saw that he took off all of our pics and my comments from his myspace so I got mad again and deleted him. Well, two days later I finally decided that I would call him again- I found out through his uncle that my ex had gotten himself a new cell phone and two new email addresses. He had not contacted his uncle for about 2.5 weeks until his uncle got a call from him two days ago. My ex told him that he actually has a friend who is getting chemo again (supposedly the friend that had left him the comment on myspace- he had never told me about it) and that he would need to sort out things and then he would contact me. I actually had bought a plane ticket for his homecoming at the end of this year (he had wanted to pay for half of it since I didn't want him to pay the whole ticket however he could not transfer me any money), but the day after the break-up I decided to get it canceled. I don't know, I feel really bad, I so wish I would have not gotten it canceled. I actually don't know what I shall think about all of this. He was so caring and everything (he even sent me a promise ring and AE shirts he had ordered online since I love AE) and then this. =( Maybe someone has some advice for me? I would so love to send him a letter and his favorite German candy before he leaves the sandbox to go back to the US but I had opened up a new account on myspace and wrote him a message already (he blocked my old account) and never got a reply from him. What can I do to make him be friends with me? It's so tough to focus on my studies when all I can do is think about him =(
I am back- some of you probably know that I have been on here before, due to a few not so nice posts of other users I decided to leave this forum, though. Anyways, I actually would really appreciate if you could help me out. My ex and I had gotten together when he came to visit me and his uncle, who lives in Germany also, during his deployment to the sandbox. Everything was great back then, during the deployment (with the ups and downs you know) and we had even stuck through his extention. Ok, well, we had a few arguments about his next duty station (he really wanted to come here but it seems like he is getting stationed in Korea now) and when I found a strange comment of one of his exes on his myspace, I freaked out on the phone. I was so mad that I actually made him make a decision about breaking up or staying with me. When I called him again a few hours later, he was so cold and basically said that "we knew we were made for each other but the timing just wasn't right". I wanted to tell him that I don't want this relationship to be over but I was just crying and couldn't even think. Well, the next day, I saw that he took off all of our pics and my comments from his myspace so I got mad again and deleted him. Well, two days later I finally decided that I would call him again- I found out through his uncle that my ex had gotten himself a new cell phone and two new email addresses. He had not contacted his uncle for about 2.5 weeks until his uncle got a call from him two days ago. My ex told him that he actually has a friend who is getting chemo again (supposedly the friend that had left him the comment on myspace- he had never told me about it) and that he would need to sort out things and then he would contact me. I actually had bought a plane ticket for his homecoming at the end of this year (he had wanted to pay for half of it since I didn't want him to pay the whole ticket however he could not transfer me any money), but the day after the break-up I decided to get it canceled. I don't know, I feel really bad, I so wish I would have not gotten it canceled. I actually don't know what I shall think about all of this. He was so caring and everything (he even sent me a promise ring and AE shirts he had ordered online since I love AE) and then this. =( Maybe someone has some advice for me? I would so love to send him a letter and his favorite German candy before he leaves the sandbox to go back to the US but I had opened up a new account on myspace and wrote him a message already (he blocked my old account) and never got a reply from him. What can I do to make him be friends with me? It's so tough to focus on my studies when all I can do is think about him =(