sweetashoney
05-22-2005, 12:49 PM
Hi everybody!
As said in the title, I am very sorry about posting this thread but I would appreciate it VERY much if you would help me, though!
Well, to start with, I am a girl from Germany. From the first time I visited the US(that was with 7 and then again as an exchange-student from the year 2002 to 2003), I have fallen in love with the US and its people. When I came back from my exchange year, I met a US soldier at a club in Germany(I know, it's a horrible place to meet somebody).Well, we fell in love and saw each other on a regular basis(he even called me every SINGLE day- isn't that sweet?!) until he became a little strange. E.g. he didn't call me that often anymore, behaved differently, just to list a few facts. Anyways, we broke up after 4 months of relationship and I was pretty hurt.
About two months ago, I was called up by him again(after not having talked with him in 5 months)-Eric(that's his name) wanted to apologize for his behavior and asked me if I wanted to meet him again...well, I gave in. From then on, he was back to being a very caring boyfriend and was just the sweetest guy you could ever imagine...yet, he went back to being a fool once again about 2 weeks ago after I had visited him on base for the first time. He stopped calling me although we did not even have an argument or fight and when I went to a bar, I saw one of the guys Eric works with, so I asked him how Eric was doing. I couldn't believe what he told me- he(the guy) had seen Eric with another girl on base about three weeks prior to this day... I am just SO confused right now because I'm totally in love with Eric but I fear that it's just one-sided love...but, then again, why would you call up your ex-girlfriend if you did not want to have a relationship with her? *HELP* Do you think Eric could be some kind of player?
Well, I hope you will be able to help me(I'm just SO sad and shocked-life is horrible right now). Thank you SO much already for your help, I appreciate it VERY much!
Have a wonderful day and lots of love from Germany,
Natalie
As said in the title, I am very sorry about posting this thread but I would appreciate it VERY much if you would help me, though!
Well, to start with, I am a girl from Germany. From the first time I visited the US(that was with 7 and then again as an exchange-student from the year 2002 to 2003), I have fallen in love with the US and its people. When I came back from my exchange year, I met a US soldier at a club in Germany(I know, it's a horrible place to meet somebody).Well, we fell in love and saw each other on a regular basis(he even called me every SINGLE day- isn't that sweet?!) until he became a little strange. E.g. he didn't call me that often anymore, behaved differently, just to list a few facts. Anyways, we broke up after 4 months of relationship and I was pretty hurt.
About two months ago, I was called up by him again(after not having talked with him in 5 months)-Eric(that's his name) wanted to apologize for his behavior and asked me if I wanted to meet him again...well, I gave in. From then on, he was back to being a very caring boyfriend and was just the sweetest guy you could ever imagine...yet, he went back to being a fool once again about 2 weeks ago after I had visited him on base for the first time. He stopped calling me although we did not even have an argument or fight and when I went to a bar, I saw one of the guys Eric works with, so I asked him how Eric was doing. I couldn't believe what he told me- he(the guy) had seen Eric with another girl on base about three weeks prior to this day... I am just SO confused right now because I'm totally in love with Eric but I fear that it's just one-sided love...but, then again, why would you call up your ex-girlfriend if you did not want to have a relationship with her? *HELP* Do you think Eric could be some kind of player?
Well, I hope you will be able to help me(I'm just SO sad and shocked-life is horrible right now). Thank you SO much already for your help, I appreciate it VERY much!
Have a wonderful day and lots of love from Germany,
Natalie