Are all US soldiers "players"?

[sweetashoney]

Sorry, I don't mean to insult anybody but I was just curious about your opinion on this topic.
Since my ex-boyfriend(he's in the Army) changed in such a bad way(from being the sweetest guy to an absolute "player"), I keep wondering if the Army so to speak the other Army guys, influence or "brainwash"(<-ok, that's a little too rude expression) new soldiers.
Would be looking forward to hearing from u,
have a good day and lots of love,

Natalie

[mandee2008]

I dont think so...i think its more the choice of the solidiers just keep in your mind there are soooo many different kinds of guys in this world. God made it so we would meet a few wrong ppl until we found the right "1" :D

[Jynx]

of coarse not mate, i hava lotta freinds that arent. most are married to rember

[Cmirah]

No, sweetheart. All U.S. Soldiers are not "players". It is just that military personnel in general, (if touring overseas) are exposed to a lot more different cultures and finally have "freedom" from their parents to do what they want...pretty much when they want to. This can be viewed both ways...being in love with someone and being faithful to them to being in "lust" with someone, getting what they want and eventually moving on to the next. This applies to both male and female soldiers. I hope this helps!

[British and proud]

My mate's a yank and he think's he's God so I would just say it's the American dude's in general but someone's bound to cry if I left it as that! I think its just the fact that all military person's in general have to live, sleep and work with men for X number of weeks/months so it's only natural that they end up being woman hungry. Love you wud be aswell if u was making more sperm than yoy knew what to do with "parden the expression"

[capwil]

Most soldiers are immature so they think they are 'all that', or God, as another poster mentioned. After a while people, mostly guys when they work together develop a sort of comradery. When you're with the same people all the time they get to be like family. You tell them your dirty secrets and they'll tell you theirs. Some soldiers will come home and think that their wife/gf isn't a part of that group so they act like a different person. Normally their self esteem is high. When they're with the guys in thier unit they feel compelled to chase women when they're not around. Not all guys mind you, some do have some self respect when they return home. I know a lot of soldiers and there are the odd few that think they will rule the world. With the majority however, it's just a job - so suck it up.

[soulchild]

I think that if the guy is like 19 or 20 and has just gotten away from his parents then he might be seen as a player..... But I would see this as no different from a college freshman. PPl tend to go crazy when they are out the house for the first few years, and becuase of the stress of the job, and relativly low amount of women it's natural for people to explore. Now, Particularly to the topic, no all sodiers aren't playa's mayb your just attracted to that type of man.

[mrsxwarhorse_55]

yeah, not all guys are bad, my man just went into the Army. So I am positive that there is at least one good guy there ;) But don't worry, you will find mr. right some day. Maybe not right away but he's there!! :)

[160thSOARgirlfriend]

I wouldnt say all soldiers are players...i think that alot of that is trying to prove themselves. I think that yes, the Army does make them full of themselevs, but they have to boost there self-esteem or you would have a bunch of scared little boys running around with guns, insted we have a bunch of self-assured guys running around in formation with guns. lol. I think this type self confidence can be great for some, and others just take it to far. I hope that makes sence...

i love my army guy btw. lol

[dontlikeit]

The average guy fool around! They have no respect. Some respect what they have at home! Expression" a girl in every Port" And sometimes a baby comes out of it. A decent guy will respect his wife or g/f, and they have to do like wise! :rolleyes:

[Army G/F]

They are not all players. My boyfriend is over in Iraq & I trust him 100%. But I think there are some out there that are not as faithful as the rest.